|The Soul, Our Hope For Glory|
Most of us have read about it or seen movies about it, but until you experience what it does to a loved one, those are nothing but detached observations that can't possibly describe the evil tyrant that Alzheimer's is. Yes, its attack is relentless and debilitating. But the person who has the disease is not its only victim. In fact, the sad reality is that the victim seems blissfully unaware that anything is wrong with them -- at least I pray that is the case -- while those who love them must stand helplessly by and watch the one they love drift further and further away, even while they're sitting right in front of you.
My mom tells stories from years ago but can't remember that she just ate dinner. The stories are jumbled and intertwined. Sometimes she laughs or gets sad as she tells them, whether the emotion is appropriate to the story she's telling or not. She warns us about imaginary problems and wonders why people who have been dead for many years haven't stopped by to see her. We go along with the stories and ask questions to hear her tell more. We love to hear her tell them. We heed her warnings and encourage her to tells us more. We remind her who we are and where we live -- several times a day. We tell her about the five grandsons she is shocked to learn she has -- even as she can recite us their names in order if we prompt her in the right way. My wife and I explain that yes, we really did invite her to our wedding 30 years ago and, yes, that man over there has been her husband since 1956.
There are glimpses of coherence that pop in and out, but those moments seem to be showing themselves less often.
She loves to watch old movies. The beauty of that love is that you can tune into the American Movie Classics channel on TV at any point during a broadcast and she becomes completely engrossed in the story from that point forward. Unfortunately, it also means the TV is on a lot -- and not just replaying old movies. The incessant news. The sports. The blathering chatter and audio pollution is ever-present in her family room. Her ears never get a rest from it. Sadly, both she, and we, have gotten too used to hearing it. It's background noise.
But last Sunday morning we turned it off.
This was not some well planned attempt to remove an agitating source of tension from the room. The truth is we simply hadn't turned the TV on yet when my mom came in and sat down in her favorite chair. For no apparent reason, I noticed a stack of CDs sitting on top of my parents' Bose stereo system. I picked the top one up and read it: "Susan Boyle: The Gift"
I had never listened to Susan Boyle before so instead of pushing a button on the TV remote, I slipped the CD in the slot and hit "play." The first song was titled, "Perfect Day." I had never heard it before but the music was haunting and the lyrics captivated all of us.
My mom's reaction to Susan's voice was instantaneous. Utter calm. Her countenance went blank. Her shoulder's relaxed. Her eyes looked up but there was nothing there to see except a melody floating on the air.
And then she started to sing.
At times she was muted and subdued, but at others she sang out with strength and confidence. I didn't remember what a beautiful singing voice my mom had. I was stunned. The Christmas songs she loved bubbled up out of her heart. Susan Boyle was accompanying her. Song after glorious song.
All the words. In the right order. Thirty minutes of heaven on Earth, not with the incoherent lady who had sat down in her chair, but with the mom -- the person -- I've always known and loved."O holy night, the stars are brightly shining
It is the night of our dear Savior's birth
Long lay the world in sin and error pining
'Til He appeared and the soul felt its worthA thrill of hope, the weary world rejoices
For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn'
Fall on your knees, O hear the angels' voices
O night divine, O night when Christ was born
O night divine, O night, O night divine"
The scientists can scan my mother's brain and they will find a corroded mass of neurons crisscrossing one another on a wild goose chase to nowhere. They can tell me her prognosis is nothing but addled chaos because her machinery is falling apart. But they are wrong because my mom is not a machine; she is not just a computer made of meat.
None of us are. We are more than that. We have minds and souls that animate and make us who we really are -- human beings made in the image of God. The theologians can argue about the implications of the Imago Dei. The philosophers can tell us if, and how, saying such a thing makes sense. The scientists can tell us that it is just an illusion. But the union of body and soul is the only way to make sense of the totality of what it means to be human ... and it is the reason addled chaos is not my mom's, or anyone else's, only future. There is more to her than that.
She does not just have ears that interpret vibrations; she is a being who experiences music. She does not just accept inputs from a digital processor whose circuits have gotten corroded; she is a sentient creature whose personality comprises will and emotion. The words to those songs and the tunes that accompany them are not stored on some magnetized, spinning disk in her head. They are possessed by a mind that can access them even when its hardware is malfunctioning.
There is something about us that is not mechanical -- a part of us that animates and transcends the physical things we see. Something that provides us with a continuity of personhood that extends beyond our rotting parts and attaches us to the glorious divine. It is this that gives us a future and the hope of glory. Nothing else explains what we witnessed with my mom last Sunday morning.
Yes, she is in there. And her Father can hear her sing.